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Shirley May Bechter

Shirley May Bechter

Female 1933 - 2026  (92 years)

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  • Name Shirley May Bechter 
    Birth 28 May 1933  Amazonia, Andrew County, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 16 Feb 2026  Clayton, Rabun County, Georgia Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Cause: multiple myeloma 
    Obituary 22 May 2026  Saint Joseph, Buchanan County, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location 
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    • Bennett, Shirley M. Clayton, Ga.

      CLAYTON, Ga. - Shirley May Bennett (nee Bechter) passed away peacefully on Feb. 16, 2026, at the age of 92, following a lengthy battle with multiple myeloma. Shirley was born and raised in Amazonia, Missouri, to the late Rose and John Bechter. She graduated as valedictorian of the Savannah, Missouri, High School Class of 1951, where she was active in 4-H and received the Missouri 4-H State Food Preservation Award.

      Shirley and her husband, Jack, raised their family in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and Jacksonville, Florida, before eventually settling in St. Augustine, Florida. There, Shirley built a long and successful career as a Realtor, working in the profession for many years before retiring in 2023. She later moved to Clayton, Georgia, to be near her daughter, Bonnie.

      Shirley and Jack shared a love of travel and explored the United States extensively while raising their family. After their children were grown, they traveled throughout the world. Switzerland remained Shirley's favorite destination, and she enjoyed visiting there several times with the Swiss Lodge of St. Joseph.

      Shirley was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Jack.

      She is survived by her son, Tom Bennett (Vanessa); daughter, Bonnie Seay (Rick); grandchildren Amanda Freeman (Eric), Nathan Seay, and Bryan Bennett; and great-grandchildren, Brittany Mota, Cayla Carney, and Jessica Freeman.

      A funeral service and interment of ashes will be held on Saturday, June 13, 2026, at 1 p.m. at St. John's Church, in Amazonia, Missouri.

      Shirley will be remembered for her warmth, determination, and love of family. She found joy in bringing people together, whether at home, through her work, or during her many travels. Her kindness, resilience, and adventurous spirit left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her. She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by her family and friends. As published in the St. Joseph News-Press.
    Burial 13 Jun 2026  Saint John's Church Cemetery, Amazonia, Andrew County, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Person ID I19320  CCBasic
    Last Modified 27 May 2026 

    Father John J. Bechter,   b. 27 Dec 1895   d. 21 Mar 1986 (Age 90 years) 
    Mother Rose E. (Bechter),   b. 2 Aug 1895   d. 13 Sep 1980 (Age 85 years) 
    Family ID F7470  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Jack W. Bennett,   b. 5 Sep 1932   d. 6 May 2004 (Age 71 years) 
    Family ID F7471  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 26 May 2026 

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    Jack and Shirley Bechter Bennett -- Grave Marker
    Jack and Shirley Bechter Bennett -- Grave Marker
    Jack and Shirley Bechter Bennett -- Grave Marker
    Jack and Shirley Bechter Bennett -- Grave Marker